Suicide Prevention

Many people experience suicidal thoughts at some point in their lives, particularly when they are facing overwhelming emotional pain, loss, or feelings of hopelessness. Having these thoughts does not mean that you will act on them, and it does not mean that there is something wrong with you.

One of the most important things you can do is talk to someone you trust. Speaking openly about suicidal thoughts can feel frightening, but it often reduces feelings of isolation and helps people access the support they need.

If you are struggling with suicidal thoughts, feeling overwhelmed, or finding it hard to see a way forward, please know that you do not have to face this alone. Support is available, and reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Urgent help can be found on our Get Help Now Page. The resources below may help you to find specialist support in the longer term.

If someone is at immediate risk of harm or a life is in danger, call 999 or go to A&E immediately.




Supporting others

Free training to support people at risk of suicide is available at Zero Suicide Alliance:

ZSA suicide awareness training courses

Courses on offer now include courses aimed at health care workers and at supporting specific communities.



Support After Suicide

If you have been bereaved by suicide, you may be experiencing a range of difficult emotions, including grief, shock, anger, guilt, or confusion. There are organisations that understand the unique impact of suicide loss and can provide compassionate support for individuals, families, friends, and communities.



We offer a freshly cooked meal  (which varies daily), at a very reasonable cost. A vegetarian option is always available. We also offer tea, coffee, squash and snacks.

On fridays we serve fish or sausages with chips. Lunches need to be ordered before 11:30am and can be placed over the telephone as well as in person.

Sunday's member-led session offers a set cooked breakfast which must be ordered before 1:00pm.

Activities

We offer a selection of free weekly activities, which are currently taking place online, including:

  • Coffee Mornings;
  • Art 4 Wellbeing;
  • Drama Group;
  • Mindfulness; and
  • Yoga.

Further information and booking details can be found on our Events page.

We provide a selection of board games such as bingo, scrabble, chess and draughts. For the more sporty we also have a snooker table and a table tennis table.

There is no obligation to participate in any activities, if you prefer to just sit quietly and take a moment for yourself, a variety of newspapers are available on a daily basis.

Activities

While we are called a Crisis Café, we don't really offer food - although a cup of tea can be very helpful. And don't expect lots of activities - if you want yoga, art or mindfulness, we offer those in our daytime service at the Belmont Connect.
We are aware some people are having issues with the referral forms, if you are having problems, please email us at admin@smhf.org.uk or give us a call on 020 8770 0172.